If you are feeling low on fuel after
the holidays, this is the issue for you. Burnout robs us of
our peace and joy, and can seriously undermine our relationships,
our service, and our work. The start of another year always
reminds me that God’s grace is abundant and fresh everyday.
It never runs out, even though we do!
As we look ahead to the 2006 banquet, we are very excited
to have basketball legend David Thompson as our speaker. Please
be sure to read the article about him in this issue.
Thanks to all our friends and supporters for seeing us through
2005.
Dr. Joe Verga
Executive Director, ACC
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JANUARY FEATURES
A New Year—Exuberance or Exhaustion?
Burnout and Women
2006 Banquet—Featuring David Thompson
Why I Serve—Steve Robertson
Book Reviews
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NEW YEAR - EXUBERANCE OR EXHAUSTION
For some, January means a clean page on the calendar, a
new beginning, a fresh start. It’s exciting! For others, having
gotten through the holiday season may feel more like being the last
runner collapsing across the finish line utterly spent and exhausted.
For those, January feels more like time for the vow, “Never
again!” Welcome to burnout. Read
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BURNOUT AND
WOMEN
Although burnout does not occur in one sex more than another, or
in one season more than another, this post-holiday/resolution time
seemed an appropriate one to give some thought to burnout. I’ve
asked the female therapists at ACC, to share their thoughts and
insights as professionals and as women. Read
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DAVID
THOMPSON: THE REST OF THE STORY
For many North Carolinians and other ACC basketball fans, David
Thompson’s story ended in the 1980’s. A once-in-a-generation
player, the Shelby, NC native led the 1973-74 North Carolina State
Wolfpack to its first NCAA title, winning him accolades to this
day as one of the five greatest college players of all time. He
was the No. 1 draft pick in both the NBA and ABA in 1975. When the
two leagues merged in 1978, Thompson signed the largest contract
in NBA history. His career won him election into the NBA Hall of
Fame. But Thompson disappeared just as rapidly as he arrived when
cocaine and alcohol abuse robbed him of his skills, his fortune,
and his family. By the early 1980s, Thompson's life had hit rock
bottom and his career was over.
What most fans have not heard, however, is the rest of David Thompson’s
inspiring story. In his darkest moments, David gave his life to
Christ. That decision, God’s grace and faithfulness, and the
counseling, ministry and love of others brought about a restoration
of all things that are truly important in his life. Today Thompson
is not only clean and sober, but is ministering to others –
especially children who come from communities that have the most
challenging needs.
We invite you to join us and bring
your friends and loved ones to this memorable evening, Tuesday,
March 28th, 2006, at 6:30PM at the Benton Convention Center, Winston-Salem,
NC. Look for ticket information in our February issue.
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WHY I SERVE
- STEVE ROBERTSON
Steve Robertson has served on the board of Associates in Christian
Counseling since 2004.
“I’d known Joe Verga for a number of years as a member
of my church and Sunday School class long before I knew much about
ACC. My experience with ACC became quite personal when my wife and
I availed ourselves of their services for some family counseling,”
Steve shared candidly. Years later when asked to serve on the Board,
he didn’t hesitate.
Robertson believes that most pastors and churches don’t have
the time or the training to deal with the great need for counseling
which exists in our community. “Marriages and families are
struggling. Individuals are dealing with personal issues. ACC provides
a safe, confidential place with trained, professional counselors.
Their guidance is consistent with God’s Word and it works.”
“I truly believe in this ministry. I have a great deal of
love and respect for ACC’s dedicated staff and I consider
it a privilege to serve,” Steve concluded.
Steve Robertson is the President and CEO, The Robertson Group
& Affiliated Companies and currently serves as Chairman, Board
of Trustees, NC Baptist Hospital and Vice Chairman, Board of Directors,
WFUBMC
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| ARE YOU BURNING OUT?
Rating yourself on a scale of 1 (no change) to 5 (great deal of
change),
think back over the past 6 months or more—
1. Have you noticed changes in yourself or the
world around you?
2. Do you tire more easily? Feel fatigued rather
than energetic?
3. Are people annoying you by telling you “you
don’t look so good lately”?
4. Are you working harder and harder and accomplishing
less and less?
5. Are you increasingly cynical and disenchanted?
6. Are you often invaded by a sadness you can’t
explain?
7. Are you forgetting appointments, deadlines,
personal possessions?
8. Are you increasingly irritable, short-tempered,
and more disappointed in the people around you?
9. Are you seeing close friends and family members
less frequently?
10. Are you suffering from physical complaints—aches,
pains, headaches, a lingering cold?
11. Do you feel disoriented when the activity of
the day comes to a halt?
12. Is joy elusive?
13. Are you unable to laugh at a joke about yourself?
14. Does sex seem like more trouble than it’s
worth?
15. Do you have very little to say to people?
If your score was:
0-25 you’re doing fine
26-35 start noticing things in your life
36-50 you’re a candidate for burnout
51-65 you are burning out
65+ you are in a dangerous place threatening your
health
Adapted from the Freudenberger Burnout Scale presented at AACC
workshop by Debra Taylor, 10/1/05
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BOOK REVIEWS
Having a Mary Heart in a Martha World: Finding Intimacy
with God in the Busyness of Life
Joanna Weaver
Waterbrook Press, 2002
An invitation for every woman who feels she isn’t Godly enough,
isn’t loving enough, isn’t doing enough to take a fresh
look at an old familiar story
David Thompson: Skywalker (book)
David Thompson
Sports Publishing, 2003
Tells his story from his NC roots to NC State superstar; from the
NBA to tragic career end; from the darkest moments to faith and
restoration.
Skywalker: The David Thompson Story (DVD)
See Thompson’s career in highlights, photographs, and interviews
with Michael Jordan, Dr. J and more.
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| Special
Gifts |
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honor of:
Dave Holton
from
Pam Holton
Scott Reed
from
WSFS Bank, DE
Tim & Penny Whitener
Scott & Pam Reed
Jim & Brenda Israel
from the
Whitener Bible Fellowship Class
In Memory of:
Pauline Mills Neill
by
Bob & Cathy Mills
Jan Gurganus and
Martha Thornton
by
Heather Verga
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Do You Have an
ACC Story? |
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We welcome anyone who might be willing
to share something regarding their counseling experience at ACC.
Your information would be presented in a way to protect your privacy
while at the same time encouraging others who might be considering
seeking help.
Please contact Dr. Joe Verga, Executive
Director, at 336-896-0065 ext. 206, or via email.
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| Excerpts
from
THE PARADOX OF TIME
--Dr. Bob Moorehead |
| We
spend more, but have less
We buy more, but enjoy it less
We have more conveniences, but less time
We plan more, but accomplish less
We’ve learned to rush, but not to wait
We’ve learned how to make a living,
But not a life
We’ve added years to life, not life to years
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